Goal-setting exercises
Let’s start!
Exercise one: You only got 6 months left to live
I know this one doesn’t sound like much fun, but bear with me. If you think about it, knowing that you’ve only got 6 months left on this earth could actually be fun. You have nothing left to lose now. You are not afraid to try new things anymore or fearful of failing at something new. You are not afraid to tell people how you feel. You have the courage to take risks and live the life that you have always wanted to. So what are you doing to do for the next 6 months?
Decide quickly, because you don’t have much time left. What do you want to learn? Where do you want to go? What do you want to do? Who do you want to meet or spend time with? Make that list quickly because time’s running out and you need to go and live the life of your dreams today!
Exercise Two: Long lost friend
You come across a good old friend today. You lose contact with this friend and haven’t seen them for three years. Both you are delighted to see each other again. They say:” I haven’t seen you for three years! It seems like ages! How are you doing recently?” You answer their questions:
- I live in (town, city, and country):
- I am making a living by (job title/job role):
- I am earning (USD per year):
- My hobbies and interests are:
- I have given up/I have taken up:
- Since I’ve last seen you a new skill that I have acquired is:
- I do/don’t have a partner and my family life is:
- I’ve travelled to:
- Others:
The last time that I did something that I really, really didn’t want to do, but did it anyway, was:
The last time I felt truly happy was:
The last time I felt truly at peace was:
The last time I felt really proud of myself was:
The last new skill that I developed was:
The last time that I felt totally focused was:
Exercise Four – Congratulations! You won the lottery!
Close your eyes for a moment and imagine that you’ve just checked your lottery ticket and you have the winning numbers. After you get over the initial shock, you realize that your life is about to change forever. Are you still sitting down? You should be jumping up and down with excitement by now. So how will you change your life from today? You’ve got all the money you need to make things happen in your life, so write down how your life is going to start changing from today.
You don’t have to worry about bills coming, loan repayments or other payments. Picture this incredible wealth. Now, what are you going to do? How are you going to fill each day?
Conclusions:
After you have done these exercises, you will know yourself more. Now let’s take a look what they were supposed to accomplish:
The first one gives you an idea on your immediate goals and which areas of your life you have to start working on.
The second exercise, “Long lost friend” gives you the answers to where you want to achieve in three years.
Exercise three helps you to appreciate life and enables you to know when you are experiencing certain ‘feelings’. It gives you a point of reference for the future to feel that experience again.
Exercise four “You won the lottery!”. This exercise indicates how you would like to spend your time and what you really want to do. Could you do more of this in your life? Could you even do this for a living? Just think it.
If you do these exercises honestly, you will know your purpose, passions, needs and drivers. Go ahead and set your goals!
A good way to finish these exercises is writing down a “Vision of your Ideal Life”. In this you should write the state of your career and finances, what you will be doing in your free time, how is your health and fitness and how you are contributing to the larger community.
All the best,
Natasha Leite
@natashaleite
